How it works
From "yes" to RSVPs, step by step
Here's exactly what happens after you find your design, and what you and your guests will see along the way.
Choose your design
Browse the collection and open each live demo. Tap the envelope, scroll through and try the RSVP form: every demo works exactly like the real invitation your guests will get.
Browse designsPick a package and order
Choose Essential, Signature or Couture, add it to your cart and create your account. Placing your order takes a couple of minutes, and you pay by bank transfer.
Compare packagesSend us your details
Right after you order, a short form is waiting in your account. Fill it in at your own pace, save it and come back whenever you like, from your phone or laptop.
Review and approve
Within 3 to 5 days we send you a private preview link. Look through it on your phone, tell us what you'd like changed, and we'll update it until it's perfect.
- Rounds of changes included in every package
- Nothing goes to guests until you say so
Share your link
Send your invitation link on WhatsApp, Instagram, email or text. Guests open it straight in their phone's browser, with no app to install. Couture also includes a printable QR code card.
Guests reply in seconds
Right inside your invitation, guests tell you if they're coming, how many are in their party and any dietary needs, and can leave you a message. No account, no app, no paper cards to post back.
- Replies close automatically after your RSVP deadline
- Included with Signature and Couture
Go ahead and try it: this demo won't save your reply.
Watch the replies arrive
Log in to your Lily Letterhouse account to see every reply as it comes in: who's coming, how many guests in total, dietary needs and the lovely messages. Download it as a spreadsheet for your seating plan and caterer.
- Always up to date, from any device
- Only the two of you (and our team, if you need help) can see it
| Guest | Reply | Party | Dietary |
|---|---|---|---|
| The Patel family | Coming | 4 | 1 nut allergy |
| Charlotte Ashby | Coming | 2 | Vegetarian |
| Amelia Clarke | Declined | – | – |
| Oliver Grant | Coming | 2 | Halal |
| Aisyah Rahman | Coming | 1 | – |
Questions
Good to know
Do my guests need an app or an account?
No. They open your link in their phone's browser and reply right there.
Can we change details after sharing the link?
Yes. Your invitation is online, so updates appear instantly for every guest. Each package includes rounds of changes.
What if a guest changes their mind?
They can simply reply again, and you'll see their latest answer in your account.
Does Essential include RSVP?
Essential invitations don't include the RSVP form. Choose Signature or Couture to collect replies through your invitation.
Ready to begin step one?
Open the designs and find the one that feels like the two of you.